
I know I'm a day late and a dollar short, as my mother's birthday was actually yesterday, but I was super busy with an event at work, so I didn't have time to post.
And now, this is my 200th post, so I can't think of a better thing to say on it than happy birthday to one of the kindest, most caring people I know- my mom.
I know I haven't always seen eye to eye with my mother. At times when I was younger, I thought she was probably the toughest mom around. Yes, she may have been strict at times, but looking back on it, I can see why. I'm an only child and if something happened to me that was it.
I've seen my mom battle some difficult things in her life. She lost her mother to a cerebral hemorrhage when I was 11 years old. My mother was the one that tried to revive my grandmother when my grandfather came screaming out of the bedroom after finding her. I know this was incredibly difficult for my mother to lose her own mother. And my grandmother was fairly young- in her 60's- when she passed away. Being that my mom is in her 60's now too, I can't imagine what it would be like to lose my rock. But my mom, even on her saddest days, has shown me what true faith and strength are all about.
You see, my mom fights a battle every single day of her life against a disease you can't win against. She has severe rheumatoid arthritis- so severe that knee replacements and hip replacements won't help. So severe that the cartilage in every single joint in her body is wearing down. In most cases, every joint is bone rubbing bone. But, she keeps on going, never asking for pity. She goes to school every day and teaches Latin and English to high school students- which is usually a thankless job. So, even dealing with a debilitating disease that leaves your body so weak, my mom shows amazing strength.
There's not a single thing in my life that I have not been able to burden my mother with. She listens to all my problems and gives me the best advice. It took me a while to see that my mom is usually always right. Mothers do know best. She has become my best friend and confidante through the years, and I wouldn't change that a bit.
So, thank you, Mama, for being a wonderful, Christian example for me in my life. I can only hope that, if the day comes, I'll be half the mom you have been. I love you and happy birthday- a day late and a dollar short.