Thursday, April 15

Thursday is the new Friday

Today is a wonderful day! Why? Because it is Thursday, which this week, is my Friday. Yippee! I took tomorrow off because we have to go to a rehearsal dinner for a wedding in Charleston. I have had a gift card for a spa mani & pedi from WEG since Christmas, and I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to use it. I can't wait! Then we'll head to Charleston sometime tomorrow afteroon.

It's supposed to be beautiful weather. The rehearsal dinner invitation said it was casual, so I am going to wear white jeans, a coral ruffled top (hard to explain- I'll try to get a picture!), and silver jack rogers (although I'd really like gold, but I don't have those!). I think that will be good for a casual rehearsal dinner, don't y'all? I am thinking turquoise jewelry- what do y'all think? I have some earrings that are tigers eye & turquoise that are so pretty. I think those would be different!

For the wedding, I am wearing the dress from Boden that my parents gave me for my birthday. Here it is:


And I am still undecided on what type of jewelry to wear with it. Any ideas?
I am so glad the weather is going to be nice to allow for fun spring clothes and dresses. It just makes everything better!
What are your big plans for the weekend?

Monday, April 12

Vacation Advice- Need your help!

Hey y'all!
I hope everyone had a great weekend! I did- it was pretty relaxing in comparison to a lot of weekends lately and we actually got to sleep late on Saturday...glorious! We'll be pretty busy for the next few weeks with weddings and various other things, so it was nice to have a bit of a break.

Anyway...back to the point of my post. I need your vacation advice. WEG and I are trying to book a vacation right now for sometime in July. We're pretty flexible with when we can go during that month, but we'd like to go the end of one week, weekend, and first of the next so we don't miss an entire week at work, just parts of 2.

We are trying to decide between a cruise and going to an all inclusive resort. The problem I have found with cruises is the 5 days typically run from Sunday to Thursday, which doesn't fit our parts of 2 weeks criteria, but cruises are generally less expensive than having to fly somewhere.

That's where y'all come in. Where have you been recently that was budget-friendly? What airline did you fly? What type of a resort was it where you stayed? If you went on a cruise, where did you sail? What are your tips for finding deals?

We really want to go somewhere outside of the US- after all, I FINALLY just got a passport, and I really want to use it :-)

Friday, April 9

Praise for today

I know my posts have been pretty heavy recently, but the West Virginia mine tragedy is something that has been weighing on my heart and I felt like I needed to get out my feelings. I'm still saddened that it's 4 days after the explosion and there are still 18 dead inside the mine and 4 unaccounted for. These families have no closure, and if there is a glimmer of hope that the 4 missing are alive, then it's rapidly dwindling because oxygen in the safety chambers has to be getting close to running out.

However, while my prayers are still with those in West Virginia and my heart is still heavy, and will continue to be, I felt that a more upbeat post was in order! So, how about a few items of praise that I have?

1. We finally got some rain last night! Now, I know a few months ago I griped about all the rain we were getting, but we certainly needed it this time around. There was a cloud of pollen over the city and a yellow tint to everything. Not good for the allergies, that's for sure. And while the pollen is still here, at least the air is a bit cleaner for the time being.

2. It's Friday. Need I say more? We have nothing on the agenda for Saturday which means no alarm clock to jolt us awake. Sheer bliss if you ask me!

3. I have been blessed with wonderful friends, some that I get to hang out with tonight. And what's even better is having a boyfriend that really, truly likes my friends and enjoys hanging out with them. Of course, they're awesome, so why wouldn't he? Right, girls? ;-)

4. And while we're on the subject, another praise I have is a great boyfriend. He makes me laugh all the time and we get along so well. We are both able to be our own independent people and have our own hobbies and activities, yet enjoy many things together. It's the best of all worlds!

5. I also feel so lucky to have such great parents. I was able to spend all last weekend with them for Easter, and it's always a good time for me to relax and recharge and eat good home cookin' from my Mama. Everybody needs that once in a while!

6. Finally I'm praising the fact that I have a Heavenly Father that loves me and provides everything I need. No problems are too big for my God and he cares all of his children alike. What a wondrous thing!

What are your praises today?

Wednesday, April 7

Tugging at my heartstrings

Whatever you do for the least of my brothers and sisters, you do for me...Matthew 25:40

I don’t usually post about something two times in a row, but this is something that sparks a lot of passion in me. I didn’t get many responses yesterday, but I don’t care- I will continue to try and do my part to make people aware of the situation in West Virginia. Thank you to those of you who did respond- it makes it worth my while if even one or two respond.

This is a situation that really tugs at my heart. As I read the updates and watched footage last night, I could not keep the tears from rolling down my cheeks. Especially when I watched the family of miner Benny Willingham, a 62 year old man who had worked in the mine for 30 years and was 5 weeks from retirement. Five weeks- can you even imagine the pain they must feel? When Matt Lauer asked Benny’s daughter how her mother is holding up she told him “she’s not.” How utterly devastating. But, his daughter said that Benny knew the dangers of the mine, knew that any moment might be his last, and, fortunately, he also had told his family that if the Lord came to get him he was ready. Thankfully, amid the devastation they must feel, at least they have Benny’s faith to cling to.

The stories of the miners are many. They were family men- brothers, sons, fathers, uncles, nephews. They were friends, believers in God. And yet, outside of the state of West Virginia, in a few weeks their stories will be all but forgotten. Swept under the rug or thrown out with last week’s trash. Did anybody truly remember the Sago mine explosion that happened in 2006, that killed 12 people, until it was mentioned in the context of this explosion? Probably not anybody that was not directly affected.

And as life moves on for the rest of us, so it will for those in West Virginia. The mines will continue to operate, and many men will go to work each day, aware of the risks, but with no other options. As one miner said, “That’s what you get when you live in this area because that’s all we have.” So, it will continue in West Virginia because coal mining pays the bills. It’s a way of life. Every day they’ll put on their boots and enter the mines knowing that they may never return to the surface alive. But, as I mentioned yesterday, the alternative- a mine closing- is much worse. When this happens the people who lose their jobs are thrown into the depths of poverty, in need of the help of people like you and like me.

But, many don’t know the need of the people in West Virginia. They’re certainly not a group of people that would ask for help. But, the need is there. It’s a chance for all of us to make a difference in our own country. As WEG told me, it’s not romantic to people to help others in West Virginia- not like going to an African village or Afghanistan or South America. If you say you took a mission trip to West Virginia, people may applaud you, but not like they do if you say you went to Uganda (just using this as an example). But, to me, it’s not about the applause, and it doesn’t make foreign missions any more important than those in the United States. It’s about a group of people not far from my home in South Carolina that truly need us. So, again today, I ask you to pray for these people, and, if you feel a real tug like I do, there are ways you can help. Just ask me.

Tuesday, April 6

Never the same...

Almost heaven, West Virginia. Blue Ridge Mountains, Shenandoah River. Life is old there, older than the trees. Younger than the mountains, growin' like a breeze.

This is long, but I promise it’s worth it.

As I sit here thinking about the coal mining tragedy in West Virginia, I can’t quite keep the tears from my eyes. 25 miners killed and 4 missing…3 of the 7 pulled from the mine so far are in the same family. In Montcoal, West Virginia, life will never be the same for those with ties to the Massey Energy Company mine. But, in other parts of West Virginia, life is altered all the time when a mine shuts down. And as tragic as it is to lose 25 miners (probably 29 by the time it’s said and done), you would need to see first-hand to understand just how tragic it is when a mine closes.

Let me tell you, there are people in our own backyard who need us. I am not opposed to foreign missions, don’t get me wrong. In fact, I know that there is a need in places in Africa and South America and other parts of the world for the word of the Lord to be taught. But, until you venture into a “holler” on the backside of a mountain in West Virginia, you may never know the need in our own country, as well. Those hollers hold a special place in my heart, for I’ve been on mission trips to those places in West Virginia. I’d like to go again, but work has not permitted me in recent years. My parents go twice a year to do missions work there, and my dad goes at least two more times than that to take clothes and food.

You see, in small West Virginia communities where the lifeblood was the mine, it’s a stark picture once it shuts down. A mine is generally found in the most rural of places, usually on the backside of the mountain away from all other civilization. And, despite the health risks, as well as the risks of losing your life, a mine provides a steady income for a man providing for his family. When it closes, there is no means of income. There is no way to cross the mountain to a town that has jobs. There is no money for that, and, in the winter, it is impossible to drive across many of these mountains. The roads are too dangerous once covered in snow. By all accounts, these little coal mining towns are forgotten by most.

They are places where sometimes there is no electricity. Sometimes there is no sewage system. Raw sewage runs by way of a pipe from a home into the creek below. How do I know this? Because I’ve seen it. I’ve been to these little hollers. Been warned to stay out of the creeks because of the sewage. I know people live without electricity because of a mission trip not too long ago that my parents took. Their message was “Jesus is the light of the world.” Their idea was to deliver light bulbs to houses and tell the people their message. Imagine their dismay when they came to one house and the lady that answered the door said they would put the light bulb on the mantel and look at it. My mom told the lady that they should use it, and remember the message when they looked at the light. But, this was impossible, the lady told her, because they had no electricity.

It’s heartbreaking. The people in those hollers are a proud people. They do not ask for help. But, they are ever so grateful when they receive it. When clothes and food get delivered from churches in other areas, people line up. But they are not greedy. They take only their share, careful to make sure there is enough for their neighbor. In fact, a story I think speaks to this is one I encountered on a mission trip. I noticed when we gave the children crayons to color that they only took 2 crayons and colored their entire picture with these crayons. They explained to me that at school they get 2 crayons for an entire year. Those are their crayons. When they are gone, they are gone. It makes me cry just thinking about it. Something as simple as a box of crayons that we take for granted, is precious to these kids. These same children will only take one cookie at snack time. Sometimes, if prompted they will take another to take home. Sometimes they will take one home for a brother or sister who could not come. Like I said, never greedy.

And, oh, how they love to come to church and hear the word of God or come to the bible schools set up by churches on mission trips. They will wait for hours in the cold or rain at the foot of their driveway just so they don’t miss the bus when it picks up. The precious hours they spend at church give them a little hope in an otherwise dismal situation. They need the mission groups that visit their little hollers just as much as little villages in Africa and South America and the Middle East. What a difference hearing the word of the Lord makes. It gives them hope that maybe one day their children will make it across the mountain to a college that offers them a scholarship and make something of themselves so they don’t forever live in poverty with little opportunity.

If you want a life-changing experience, one that opens your eyes to just how much you really have, you don’t have to look any further than little communities in the West Virginia mountains. There is no way to go there and not have your heart changed for the better. I promise you will never be the same.
I ask you today to say a prayer for the families of the coal miners in Montcoal, West Virginia, as well as families in the little hollers up in the mountains where mines have closed. Pray that they seek God in even the most trying times.

Friday, April 2

Obsess much?

There are some really strange people in this world. Here is a case in point.

I stopped in at Which Wich on my lunch break to grab a sandwich. There was a lady in front of me that had her food, but was having them check on the tea machine because it was apparently out of unsweet tea. It had green, sweet, and raspberry, but the line was not hooked up properly for the unsweet tea from what I could gather.

Well, this lady stood there and stood there and stood there...I know for AT LEAST ten minutes while they tried to get the tea machine straight. A coworker of hers came in and ordered and said hello to her and how much she loved Which Wich. At this, the lady replied that she didn't like any place that did not have good tea and the machine for unsweet was not working.

Okay, to me that is a bit neurotic. You really base a restaurant on their tea? Unsweet, mind you, which to me is about as gross as drinking black coffee, but I digress. If it had been me and the sweet tea had not been working, I would have chosen something else. Lemonade, a soft drink, water...there were plenty of viable options. No way would I have waited ten minutes for unsweet tea. And after it was fixed, she still complained that it "wasn't great, but better than before." Sheesh, lady....eat your sandwich and get over it.

I apologize in advance if any of you are picky about your unsweet tea at a restaurant, but I just found this to be a bit odd!

Anyway, happy weekend!

Thursday, April 1

Catch-all

First off, the lovely BLC over at The Company She Keeps gave me the Beautiful Blogger award!
The Award asks to list 7 interesting things about yourself. I did this for a similar award recently, so I'm fresh out of interesting things about myself. But, thank you so much, BLC for thinking of me!!
In other news, I have been in Charlotte 2 days this week for work, so I am trying to play catch up with your blogs. That means I am falling behind in the commenting category- so sorry, ladies, but I am reading!
Is everyone enjoying the beautiful weather? I know those of you in the Northeast are experiencing some crazy flooding. My prayers are with all of you that are dealing with that. However, in the South, we're seeing temperatures in the 80's and I am LOVING it! In fact, I just might pull out my shorts to wear to the baseball game on Saturday. Might as well get a little suntan while I watch my Gamecocks take on the Bulldogs (Mississippi State, that is), right?
I am ready for a not-so-busy weekend at home in Elloree for Easter as a little break before a stretch of weddings, parties, and such start up.
This post was a bit boring, I know. I hope to have something interesting to say in the next few days, but you never know!